Some people make the decision to be childfree before they start trying to conceive. Then there are folks who reach the decision to live without children after years of failed fertility treatments. It’s really different for everyone. In fact, the decision to have a childfree life can be a tough reality for family and friends to accept. Whatever the case, choosing a childfree life doesn’t mean you’re a quitter or a failure.
It’s not an easy issue to think about especially for couples who struggle with infertility. Remember that no one is entitled to know why you decided to live childfree. But if you decide to share, try being a little awkward. Turn the tables on the other person and ask why they wanted to have kids. Remind yourself that your value isn’t determined by your reproductive health. Children don’t define your worth or value.