Truth

A cocktail for the third or fourth date

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 ● Spill the Tea: Sometimes by the 3rd or 4th date, you're still trying to feel a guy out. Often times, it takes weeks or even years for someone to reveal their true colors or spill the tea. That’s exactly what I’m mixing up…. My special “Spill the Tea” drink. You’ve heard of Long Island...well it’s more like a deserted island because that’s where he’ll think he’s at depending on what you find out.  By the time he’s done, you’ll know everything you need to know and whether or not he’s a keeper.

FYI: If you’re already in a relationship, it’s never too late for this cocktail.

How to discover the real you with a mirror…..

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What do you see when you look into the mirror? I strongly believe the mirrors in our homes can sometimes be taken as good or the opposite, revealing flaws we often try to conceal. Lately, my super large mirror and I have not been getting along. I usually blame my mirror for everything! I blame my mirror for not recognizing coffee stains on my clothing that I often miss while in a rush or the lipstick that lands on my teeth. However lately I have been blaming my mirror for my constant heartache. Every time I look in the mirror I feel like I'm reminded of a flaw that I didn't see before and no matter how much I change my outer appearance, my mirror always catches the real me. I have been holding on to so much these past few months such heartbreak from yet another failed love interest and sadness because I didn't want to face the truth. The reality is we can't hide from our truth and it's just that simple. We can walk past our mirrors, pretend that they aren't there but eventually we will have to face them and the fact that the person looking back is truly us.

So I've been making a point to not only stop and look in my mirror but confront myself and ask if I really like the person that I've been seeing?! In doing so, I’ve realized that I'm not defined by who I see or by the things that I've gone through. My mirror is just a reminder that the person I see is still here and that person can still grow and change for the better.

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