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Romantic Cooking for Date Night

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It’s always nice to spend some quality time in the kitchen with the love of your life. After all, my mother always said, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” Honestly, that saying really goes for myself. Feed me and I’ll love you forever. Whatever the long language, one thing is for certain, couples can always bond over a nice meal. Remember Disney’s animated movie, the Lady and the Tramp? There were definitely sparks flying over dinner between the two pups. Believe it or not, there’s romance in the kitchen. That’s only if you don’t try anything complicated on the stove. I like to keep it simple and delicious by going after the traditional or common recipes. After you master those with your partner, then you can get kinky in the kitchen. Not that kind of kinky. I’m actually talking about getting creative with a number of different flavors and seasoning. 

Whether you’re a beginner or a pro in the kitchen, the following recipes will help you connect.

Meatballs in Red Wine Sauce

INGREDIENTS

For the sauce:

  • Onions

  • Garlic

  • Olive oil

  • Tomato paste

  • Red wine

  • Beef Broth

  • Tomatoes

  • Fresh rosemary

  • Salt 

  • Fresh ground black pepper

INSTRUCTIONS

Make the red wine sauce:

  • Dice some onions and mince garlic. Heat a large, deep pan over medium high heat. Sauté the onions and garlic in olive oil until very soft. Then stir in the tomato paste. Mix well. Minutes later pour in your wine and bring to a simmer. Add your tomatoes, broth, seasoning and anything extra you’d like to use. You should be having fun, so don’t feel obligated to stick to this script. Stir until there’s some consistency with the sauce. Use your best judgement. 

Please note, this meal will be extra fun and romantic if you decide to make homemade meatballs with your significant other. That way you get to spend more time in the kitchen together. To cook the meatballs, you’ll need to shape them, using raw ground beef and later simmer over medium heat in the pan with the tomato sauce. Then boil your favorite pasta and eventually serve with your choice of a vegetable, as a side dish and a glass of red wine. 

Tomato and Arugula Pizza

INGREDIENTS

  • Pizza dough, one pound at room temperature

  • Olive oil

  • Tomato sauce

  • Mozzarella cheese

  • Arugula

  • Cherry tomatoes 

INSTRUCTIONS

  • Heat the oven to 550°F (or maximum oven temperature) for at least 30 minutes.

  • Working with one piece of dough at a time, roll or stretch it into a 10- to 12-inch circle. Brush the edges of the dough with 1 tablespoon of olive oil. Spread the tomato sauce over the rest of the dough. Sprinkle with the cheese and top it off with the cherry tomatoes. 

  • Bake the pizza until edges are lightly browned and cheese is bubbly and browned in spots. 

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Wedding invites or wedding woes?

I don’t know about you but I’m a social media junkie. However, I’m not one of those who tend to live their lives through popular social media sites.  Because of my internet addiction I often find out the latest on everything you can imagine via - Instagram or Facebook. This seems to be exceptionally true when it comes to relationships and those on my friend list that showcase their love online.  You can always tell how someone's relationship is doing by reading their status.  Well, to a certain degree and depending on what they want to expose and how they want you to perceive it.  Likewise, when people get engaged, married or have babies they post it all on social media. I'm starting to believe that the post office will be out of business soon!  LOL!

As I quickly approach thirty-something, I have been invited and attended more weddings that I could have ever imagined.  Although I'm always up for throwing on a nice dress and some pumps, I can't help but wonder if I will ever be a bride.  I'm one of those people who is happy for others when they fall in love, but after every single wedding I attend, I leave wondering if I'm going to have a head full of gray before I walk down the aisle.  It seems like my generation comes from an era where weddings are just one big show, and they often forget the symbolism and Coventry that is aligned with marriage. Whenever I attend a wedding I reflect on the beauty of love and I'm reminded that true love still exists, despite all of the hurtful and painful experiences that I may have had. Sometimes weddings can be a bitter sweet experience for a single woman, like myself but as time goes by, my wedding woes have become less and less. I constantly remind myself that marriage should be a reflection of how much you are willing to give up yourself to love someone else unconditionally.  So now when I go to weddings I ask myself, “Can you only imagine if you were married now? Not one person that you have been with has been marriage material or willing to give up himself to love you, right?”

Today, I've decided that when my moment comes, I’ll accept those wedding invites to be a reminder of God's imperfect love, that only HE could make perfect. So for now, I will enjoy signing hallmark wedding cards of celebration. Oh and of course I will enjoy wearing a new dress and amazing pumps, as I celebrate a couple’s perfect love. 

 

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