5 Getaway locations for Childfree Adults

There are many reasons why women aren’t having kids these days, whether they want to save money, to focus on themselves, or they’re in the IVF process with their partner, that decision should be respected by family and friends. No matter what your reason is for not bearing children at the moment, everyone deserves a little self-care (especially after the year we’ve had) which is why we’ve created a list of 5-weekend getaway locations in the United States for you to visit to unwind, relax, and indulge in a little me time. 

• Post Ranch Inn - Big Sur, California – Big Sur continues every year to be a beloved vacation spot for anyone needing a getaway. For this location, you’ll want to head to Post Ranch Inn, where you get majestic views of the Santa Lucia Mountains from your room, as well as award-winning cuisine, specialized spa treatments like no other, and bonus, the resort doesn’t allow any kids, which gives you plenty of room indulge in all that Big Sur has to offer.

• Hallmark Resort – Cannon Beach, Oregon – This one’s for the romantic getaway you’ve been meaning to take with your partner, I mean come on, it’s in the name. Hallmark Resort is located on one of the most beautiful stretches of Oregon’s shore overlooking Haystack Rock, a location many people jot down on their itinerary each year. The resort sits a few steps from the beach where you get to explore colorful tide pools and an array of sea life. The resort also features a spa and wellness center, as well as heated saltwater pools, a sauna, and complimentary bike rentals for those times when you want to adventure out.

• Little Palm Island Resort and Spa – Little Torch Key, Florida – So exclusive that you have to take a small plane or boat to get there, this resort sits a few feet from some of the most crystal-clear water you’ll ever see. At your arrival, you’ll be greeted with champagne waiting for you and the chance to walk just a few steps out to the gorgeous ocean view that’s all yours for the weekend. Nap during the day in a hammock or walk along the snow-white sandy beaches and try and spot vibrant coral or the fish that call it home.

• Lake Austin Spa and Resort - Austin, Texas – Keep Austin weird they say, and while we love the vibrant energy this city carries, just a little further out of the city and you hit the beautiful Texas Hill Country. Lake Austin resort is the perfect secluded vacation to take yourself on or go with your partner. They offer all-inclusive packages, gourmet cuisine, and access to the lake for some water activities or tanning.

• Triple Creek Ranch – Darby, Montana – We know a good beach trip is always relaxing but we had to add a location that would help take you out of the stressful city environment and right into the Montana wilderness for some much-needed R&R. This ranch offers you the chance to stay in a lavish cabin or ranch home. They have cozy fireplaces, hot tubes, and activities like hiking, dog sledding, and golfing.

Reach for the Stars: Successful Women who Make Childfree Look Good

News flash! Women can build a life of success without ever bearing a child. For those that do, they are often shamed or labeled everything from selfish to “less of a woman”. No matter how someone gets to the decision, there’s certainly a lot to look forward to as more women blossom into what society still questions. Cheers to women empowering women (even men) who opt to live childfree.

Childfree versus Coronavirus

Women without children are often viewed as spinsters, cat ladies, career women, selfish and the list goes on. However, with the demand for essential workers during the spread of the coronavirus, there’s potentially increased risk of burnout. Anyone, with or without children, can spend too much time working. And everyone has a life in need of balance. Generally, whenever anyone gets downtime it’s usually an opportunity to de-stress, unplug and do whatever you feel like. While those without children are not around to compensate for the commitments of those who have them, there’s never any harm in lending a helping hand to a single mother who’s a nurse working a double shift at the hospital, or the single father struggling to homeschool his children. 

There are a number of misconceptions faced by childfree adults in today’s society. However, many prove folks wrong everyday. In fact, I know many to be responsible, mature, nurturing and good role models. 

Kindness should never feel like work. So as the coronavirus forces many to go into overdrive to help control it, think of ways you can help a person or even a family during this challenging time. Childfree may be a choice but so is kindness. 

“You’ll change your mind”

When people come across women and men who don’t have any children, they often make assumptions or give unsolicited advice and prayers. That’s because there are actually folks who believe a person’s life isn’t fulfilled until they conceive a child. Some people would argue that the reason for human existence is for procreation. Yes, to some it’s important to keep the family’s bloodline alive. There’s a number of reasons for having children and just as many to support those who opt to be childfree. Then there’s a select few who go back and forth with the idea of children. That’s okay too. However, for those who are firm in their decision not to have children tend to get the, “You’ll change your mind speech.” As if the choice to not bear children calls for a immediate debate with those who have them. It’s almost as if some of those people are trying to convince themselves that they made the right choice, or that everyone must come to the same conclusion in life. I’m curious if it works the other way around. Do parents have regrets and wish upon a star that they’ve done things differently?

Can the woman (or man) who desperately wanted kids in the past, get over it? Yes, because I know that woman. Sometimes the thought of having children comes in stages of life. At one point, everyone around a close friend of mine was getting married and having babies. But it never happened for her. Of course, she mourned her fertility challenges with people like myself. However, she later openly admitted that she only wanted children because she thought that was the thing to do. Eventually, she found peace and comfort with childfree living. My story is a bit similar. I’m married and childfree as well. In fact, sometimes when my husband and I are together, at a social event, we still get the “You’ll change your mind,” speech. Instead of diving deep into a conversation, we both just look at each other, laugh, and quietly say, “No, we won’t.”

What childfree means to some folks….

Childfree doesn’t mean free of responsibilities

The lifestyle still requires a level of planning. Let’s shoot for Africa next week, though. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Childless? Don’t grieve it, embrace it.