Don't test me. I have superpowers.
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True Love?
S.I.N.G.L.E
Self-respect: Being single starts with not only self-respect but self-esteem. Develop a strong relationship with yourself. There's no telling when Mr. Right will walk into your life.
Invest in one self: Make time to pamper, meditate, and accomplish your goals. This is the perfect time to do so.
New outlook on life: Always think of your glass as half-full not half-empty. Being single is not a death sentence.
Grateful: Take a look at your past and where you are today and be thankful. Remember you're on the right track. No matter how many of your friends are getting engaged, don't think for one minute that you're behind schedule.
Love yourself: It's just that simple. How can you love anyone else without loving yourself?
Enjoy life: Ultimately, enjoy every moment of your life. Single is dating smart and having fun.
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Dance to your own music
One thing I always loved to do is dance in the mirror. There are a few songs that immediately get me on the dance floor. Single life doesn’t have to be boring. Just put on your best pumps and crank the music up on your radio. And DANCE!
Get me Bodied-Beyoncé
7/11-Beyonce
Danza Kuduro (feat. Lucenzo)
Just Fine-Mary J. Blige
Push it-Salt-N-Pepa
Don’t Stop ‘Til You Get Enough
Beautiful-Snoop
Shake it off-Taylor Switch
It takes Two-Rob Base
1 Thing (featuring Eve)-Amerie
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Always protect your heart.
Always protect your heart. That doesn't mean keep your guard up but pay attention to signs. I dated a man before who I'll call Mr. Rumor. Why? The reason is simple. This man had many secrets and there were so many rumors circulating around about him that I didn't know what to believe. Everything from Mr. Rumor being married, divorced and possibly gay.
To me, the most difficult thing about a rumor is, it may actually be true and could have some validity to it. I will never forget the day I laid my eyes on Mr. Rumor. He would tell me how much he cared for me, how I was different, and how he wanted to be with me and only me. One night while out with my girlfriends, I learned there was a lot more to Mr. Rumor. Apparently some of my friends were familiar with him. I eventually started to replay some of the conversations that we've had in my head, eventually questioning him and the friendship we had developed. In a matter of no time our relationship faded because I started to ask questions. I guess making it difficult for him to lie and pressuring him to clarify the rumors. To date, there are still many rumors lingering around about him.
However, I did learn a valuable lesson from that encounter with Mr. Rumor. The lesson is now a part of my dating 101 rules. I strongly advise women and make it a point myself to always ask questions and never settle.
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Single? Look at the bright-side!
Being a single woman has it perks. Well, that’s at least what I think. Although I often find myself daydreaming about a relationship, I must say I’m beginning to become more patient despite my burning desire to be with a stand-up guy. Hmm, what will he look like? Will he be tall (I love men who tower over me)? Will he be quiet? I’m sometimes extremely curious about my future especially when it comes to a potential significant other. Eventually I quickly snap out of my daydreaming because my imagination can run wild for hours.
At one point in my life, the only thing I could ever think about was marriage but I'm starting to realize that I enjoy my life. In fact, I really enjoy coming home to my diva pad, and I love eating random things for dinner! I’ve also realized as a single woman that I just don't want to marry someone because I’m in love with the illusion of love. Relationships should have a solid foundation, love and communication. I want to be able to laugh uncontrollably with my spouse, I want us to have the same values and morals and I definitely want who ever I end up with to make me smile just by his presence.
You see love comes and love goes in relationships without substance and foundation. So before I end up in another meaningless relationship, I’m on a journey to get myself together and finally for once take care of me. I've started taking yoga recently, booked a few short weekend getaways, and so far I love it. When you look at being single from a positive perspective you’ll eventually see that it has its perks. After all getting to know yourself only strengthens and builds a better you.
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Resolutions? Let's just live in 2016!
At the end of every year we all come up with these ridiculous goals, which we know we will not stick too! My favorite one of them all is when I hear women say "This year I'm going to the gym 5 times a week." When I hear this I giggle every time, I may have even told myself the same exact thing, especially after I've had that yummy cheesesteak that I know I had no business eating. However, I tell myself that it’s ok this one time because this year I'm going to the gym and I’m losing 30 pounds. Ha! Yeah right, just like I lied about the gym and eating only one cheesesteak a year, I often find myself saying the same thing about relationships and dating.
Like clockwork, I’d say every New Year's Eve that this year, I will not go backwards in dating. Yet those late night phone calls and texts get me every single time. So this year I didn't make any dating or weight loss goals. The one thing I did was sit myself down and have a very honest conversation. I made a commitment with myself not to be skinny, but to be healthy. I promised myself to eat better, and yes I'll have a cheesesteak every now and then but I will commit to eating healthy and becoming one with my Fitbit!
I also told myself that this year I'm not focusing on finding "Mr. Right" instead I’ll be getting right and working on myself. Last but not least, the most important goal of all is “No More Man Referrals!” I know my friends mean well, but each and every time someone has tried to introduce me to someone, it has been a disaster. Those referrals have often left me questioning our friendship, like wait, “Does this person really know me, because why would my friend ever introduce me to this guy?” Ha-ha, but seriously, I want a connection that is organic, no more match.com lead by friends! My goal in 2016 is to simply grow. Sometimes single ladies spend too much time counting time and wondering when marriage and babies will fall in place. The fact of the matter is if we were truly living up to our potential we wouldn't have time to worry. In due time, love will certainly come and we may even lose a few pounds but for now let's just live in 2016!
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The Best Single Inspirational Tags of 2015
We've all needed a little pick me up on those lonely dateless nights or just after that big break up with Mr. Wrong. Here are some of the Best Inspirational Single Tags we've created for Social Media in 2015.
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Maintaining a smile
As a single lady I always get a little choked up because I'm always single during the holidays. Well except for my birthday since it always falls on Thanksgiving weekend. I have been blessed to always spend my “born” day with my closet girlfriends, and they make it a blast. This year for my birthday we decided to enjoy karaoke and hookah, and it was definitely a fun time. However, as the night came to a close my reality started to sink in and weigh heavy on my mind. I have never shared my birthday with anyone of the opposite sex. No I didn’t wake up to any special texts or birthday calls. Instead, my smile was brought on thanks to my family and friends who always go out of their way to make it memorable.
Let’s start with my family, my grandma has made it a tradition to always sing the traditional birthday song to me and my grandpa makes it his business to create a special card on his computer every year, which I save and have framed by the way. Unfortunately my heart breaks as I sit at the long and elegant table prepared with “Thanksgiving” favorites because there’s no one special sitting next to me. Then there’s Christmas. Now don't get me wrong, I love my family and very thankful for them but I would love to have a significant other to share the holidays with. I can’t help but dream of what it is like to exchange gifts with someone, or tell them how much I appreciate them or blow out my candles with them on my birthday. I long for the day that my dreams become a reality.
For now I’ll just continue to maintain my smile and try to enjoy my single status. ‘Tis the season to be jolly and thankful. Until Mr. Right and I cross paths, my goal is to make sure my life is in order so I can be just right for that special someone! I take comfort in knowing that I won't be alone during the holidays and my birthday forever.
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Time waits for NO one……
I like to think of myself as a “fashionista” if you will. However, unlike many fashion guru's I have a few signature items that you will always find me in. First and foremost, I will go nowhere without a blazer, even when I'm dressed down I have on a blazer! Next my glasses, although I really need them for my vision, I'm constantly looking at new trendy styles. Finally, my absolute favorite thing ever is my watch! I would always hear my mom say, “You can tell a lot about a man by looking at his watch.” Growing up, I certainly didn't understand what she meant, but as I got older I understood more and more. I absolutely love a man that wears a nice watch! On the contrary, you can always find me in an awesome time piece. I started really getting into watches once I entered the working world shortly after college. My ex would always get me watches. He was an older man who knew a bit more than I did when it came to style. The more I became familiar with watch brands and styles, the more I wanted a new watch. Eventually I was introduced to Michele watches and I wanted nothing else! Michele watches are beautiful, timeless, and classy.
One day on vacation, my ex and I decided to go shopping together. We walked into a fancy high-end department store, and there she was... a beautiful and bold watch. This time piece screamed classy lady and I had to have her! At this point the both of us had been together for a few years, so it was only right that a girl gets an awesome gift every now again. He didn't get the Michele that day, but a few months later for my birthday he gave me a gorgeous round classic Michele. At that moment it hit me. All these years that we had been together, the only piece of jewelry he had given me was a watch. Even though the hands on the watch were moving, our relationship was standing still. The engagement ring I had always dreamed about was just a figment of my imagination. The only diamonds I came close to were the ones in my watch collection. The only symbol of my ex's love that I ever saw was through the hands of a watch. The hands were moving and time was forever ticking. I finally realized that as time continued to pass us by, our relationship had ran its course. I was never going to be his wife. Today, I still love collecting watches especially from a nice designer. However, I long for the moment my arm candy is sparkling right along with my left ring finger.
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Five Power Moves That Lead To Mr. Right
1. BE YOURSELF-Sounds simple right? When you’re dating, that’s the best thing you can do. Never try to be what you think the person is attracted too. If you landed a date with a potential love interest, then he obviously likes what he sees already.
2. BE CONFIDENT-A single woman should always be confident, but not conceited. It’s easy to go out and meet people when you’re comfortable in your own skin. You’re not going to meet Mr. Right if you let your ego get big or always critiquing everything about yourself.
3. TAKE THE LEAD-When you see something you want, go after it! Don’t be timid. So the next time you lock eyes with a man who you’re interested in, just approach him and strike up a conversation. It’s not like you’re about to walk down the aisle and jump the broom.
4. EXPECT TO KISS A FEW FROGS-Every man you meet is not Mr. Right! Take the experience for what it is worth. Try not to get caught up with age or your biological clock. Sure it would be nice to have Mr. Right by your side before you turn thirty or even forty. However, you’re not in a race so enjoy the dating experience. At least you get to check off those you don’t want in your life.
5. DON’T BE JUDGEMENTAL-Often times single women get caught up in the “wish” list they create. The man has to be tall, drive a luxury car, have an athletic build, etc. Ditch the list and stop being so picky. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have standards but get to know the man and make sure you pick him for the right reasons. Instead of judging things that are perishable, make sure he’s honest, respectful, caring and faithful.